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HOMECOMING

Feeling lost? Perhaps you are uncertain about the future of a relationship or at a crossroads in your career. Or maybe you are depressed or anxious. Or just feel something is missing, and you are not living the life you were meant to lead. Even the strongest among us can feel lost, unsure, ambivalent, or unhappy at times.

You need not be alone. Let me walk with you during the challenging time of your life to overcome whatever life throws at you.  I believe that you have the wisdom and strength not just to survive but to thrive!

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"Be strong enough to stand alone, smart enough to know when you need help, and brave enough to ask for it."

Mark Amend

Counselor, Psychotherapist, Spiritual Director

Kelly Nicole Tan

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Prior to being a Psychotherapist, Kelly has over 20 years of corporate experience in Building and Commercial Real Estate.  She started her career as a specialist in external façade before diverting into leasing and asset management in office and retail properties with leading real estate developers, namely, DBS Land, CapitaLand, Ascendas Land Singapore, and Frasers Centrepoint. During her sabbatical from 2003 to 2005, she discovered her interest in the field of counseling and psychotherapy. She pursued a Master's Degree in Social Science (Counselling). With her full-time job on hand, she served as a pro-bono counselor with the counseling ministry at a church and, later, a free-lance counselor. Following her interest in psycho-spirituality, she indulged herself in a Master's degree in Christian Spirituality with Loyola University Chicago. 


Kelly journeys with people during the challenging period of their lives and draws their inner wisdom and strength to help them resolve and transcendent their conditions. She works with clients on their marriage, relationship issues, depression, addictions, and anxiety..... She finds it effective to incorporate techniques such as Gestalt, guided meditation, regression, and EFT in her counseling works. Having benefited from meditation, she introduces meditation to clients during the counseling sessions and cultivates mindfulness and awareness in their lives. 

Kelly has been trained and conferred with 

·    Master of Art in Christian Spirituality, Spiritual Direction concentration from Loyola University Chicago in 2022

·    Master of Social Science (Counselling) from the University of South Australia in 2009

·     Bachelor of Science (Economics), Second Class Honors (Upper Division) from the University of London in 1991

·    Diploma in Marketing from the Chartered Institute of Marketing, the United Kingdom in 1989. 

 

She is a member of

·    Golden Key International Honour Society (2009)

·    Association of Psychotherapy and Counselling Singapore (APACS) 2012 

·    National Guild of Hypnosis (2016)

Kelly completed level 1 & 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy. She is also a certified Prepare & Enrich facilitator for the premarital couple as well as for the married couple.

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MY PHILOSOPHY

A Journey to Wholeness

I believe every challenge in life poses an opportunity to grow.  

 

I believe we have the qualities, values, and resources within us to overcome these challenges and emerge stronger and wiser.

 

I believe in drawing from within each individual these qualities, values, and resources, be it courage, wisdom, love, resilience, or patience... when I journey with my clients.

 

I believe discovering and experiencing these divine qualities empower them to manage life issues in the future with confidence.

 

I believe living out from the divine qualities, and the transcendence from our challenges move us closer to wholeness and to freedom.

I believe we are on our journey home, home to who we truly are.

Let​'s go home together.

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DURING THE SESSION

From darkness to wholeness

In our life journey, we face emotional and psychological issues relating to relationships in the family, workplace, and/or socially and difficult situations. The loss of a loved one can be a painful experience. Unexplainable fears and phobias are frustratingly inhibiting us from living a fulfilling life. The desire to stop addictions from taking control of our lives is discouraged by the challenge of kicking the habit. The stress in life can take a toll on you.

 

You are not alone. I am here to offer support. Therapy is a process of growth and self-discovery. Whether you are going through anxiety and depression, a difficult relationship, or trying to overcome an addiction, I have the tools and professional experience to help you get ahead.

 

In my therapy sessions, I promote self-awareness and behavioral transformation by using suitable therapeutic techniques and modalities, including counseling, Gestalt, and guided meditation, to uncover root causes and gain clarity. I accompany the client to walk out of darkness into light.

 

It is an understatement to say that it is heart-warming to see the breakthrough of my clients who emerge with peace, passion, strength, and clarity. The joy is priceless.  

Until you heal your past, your life patterns and relationships will continue to be the same. It is the faces that change.

 

Grace Jones

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SERVICES I PROVIDE

Moving On, Moving Forward

INDIVIDUAL

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Depression 

Stress & Anxiety

Relationship Issues

Grief Management 

Anger Management

Self-Esteem

Fear & Phobia

Addiction

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COUPLE & FAMILY

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Couple & Marital Issues
Family Violence
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CLIENT TESTIMONIALS

What My Clients Are Saying

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I was going through a season of loss and Kelly helped me gain self awareness and come out of the depression. I felt comfortable and at ease with her psychotherapy approach. 

The immense peace and fulfilling sense of calm I experienced after the session, was wonderful. It gave me strength to cope. I felt calmer – the exercises helped me overcome loss anger and sleep better.

I found balance back in my life and have since returned to full time employment after 5 years. I found it easier to control my emotions especially anger and pride.   I stopped dwelling on my losses. I talked and whined less and rested more."

Adrian Chan

Little and Large

"My journey with Kelly was empowering and healing. She has helped me untie knots stemming from my childhood. Her sessions were professionally done in confidence. I have tremendously benefited from it and have found peace within myself through this amazing therapy with her"

 Pauline Elijaline Tan

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"Kelly was the one accompanying us on our journey of healing at the beginning of our journey. She was patient and listened well and gave us good tips on how to progress in our healing journey. With her input we were able to continue on this journey, which did take some time. She also looked at each individuals psychological issues to help each to address and heal our own inner wounds and from that work on healing our relationship."

M. & O.G.

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After being diagnosed with Stage 3 cancer in the polyps in my colon, I tried my best to remain calm. I resisted the idea of surgery and chose to ‘wait and watch’.  Whilst undergoing further tests for the development of the cancer cells, I also searched for alternative treatments. In the midst of my family and friends praying for me, I underwent therapy with you

 

I believe that it is by the grace of God that you introduced to me hypnotherapy, which complemented my contemplative prayer practice of surrendering and letting go. Your hypnotherapy sessions heightened the subtle awakening of my subconscious and in turn promoted the whole process of healing at my emotional, spiritual and physical levels.

 

A medical check-up 1month after working with you revealed that the polyps in my colon had miraculously disappeared. I thank God for His grace and mercy to grant me a reprieve and I will gladly recommend such awakenings to anyone.

 

Thank you for your help, Kelly.

May the Grace of God be with you.

 

Tony

"Insanity Is Doing the Same Thing Over and Over Again and Expecting Different Results"

Albert Einstein

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SCHEDULE A SESSION

I love to hear from you.

Buzz me for a chat or drop me a note below. 

c/o San Damaino Spirituality Centre

5 Bukit Batok East Ave 2, Singapore 659918

By appointment only

+65 9680 6745

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